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August 23, 2026
Two people building a life together will run into problems, pressures, bad patterns and moments that are hard to navigate on your own. It doesn’t mean something is fundamentally wrong – all relationships have challenges.
At ReFresh Psychotherapy, we work with couples at every stage, in all kinds of difficulty. For some, things have broken down and they need help finding their way through. Others come because they want to build something stronger before bigger problems take root. Both are the right time to reach out.
We offer couples therapy and marriage counselling in Toronto at our Forest Hill location at 505 Eglinton Ave W, and online across Ontario
What brings couples to ReFresh?
Differences in views, a lack of communication, or a breach of trust can sever not only your affection towards your partner, but also your sense of safety within the relationship.
In therapy, we work with you and your partner, to help identify where the disconnect has happened, and provide guidance to a path forward that feels right for both of you.
At ReFresh Psychotherapy, we help you break the patterns that are keeping from healing the hurt you’ve both experienced so you can rediscover the happiness a loving and caring relationship can bring.
It’s important to remember that every relationship encounters challenges, and seeking couples therapy can provide the guidance and support you need to overcome these hurdles and build a stronger, more fulfilling connection.
Couples therapy is a safe and supportive space designed to help you and your partner navigate the complex terrain of your relationship.It’s a place where you can:
Before anything changes, it helps to understand the patterns behind what is happening. Early sessions focus on getting a clear picture of where things have broken down – and why the same arguments keep happening. From there we work with you to change the outcomes.
Most couples aren’t short on feelings – they just don’t know how to understand and express the to their partner without having them escalate into a fight. We’ll work on how you talk and fight with each other, including how to stay with it when things get hard.
Whether trust has been broken by infidelity, betrayal, broken promises or years of disconnection, repair is possible. It takes time and dedication from both people, and it’s something we’re experienced in supporting.
Big life changes, parenting stress, external family pressure, financial strain, health challenges – these all affect relationships in ways we usually underestimate. Therapy gives you a space to address them together rather than absorbing them separately.
Not every couple comes to therapy to save the relationship. Some come to figure out whether they want to stay or go. We work with couples at the crossroads too using Discernment Counselling.
There are many challenges you may be facing that are not listed here – book a consultation and take the first step in getting the support you need.
It’s more common than you might think for one partner to arrive reluctantly — not flatly refusing, but hesitant, sceptical, or worried about what therapy will look like. That’s actually a workable starting point. What often happens is that the less engaged partner arrives expecting to be judged or ganged up on — and discovers that’s not what happens at all. A good couples therapist doesn’t take sides. Their job is to hear both people and help you work through things together, not to assign blame or declare a winner. Men in particular often share this fear, and it’s worth saying directly: you will not be ganged up on. Many partners who come in with one foot out the door find themselves genuinely engaged once they feel heard — sometimes the hesitation is really just fear. That said, if your partner truly isn’t willing to come, individual therapy can still be genuinely useful. Working on your own patterns, your communication style, and your emotional responses can create meaningful change in the relationship even without the other person in the room. Many people find that shifts in themselves shift the dynamic between them. If you’re in that situation, let’s talk through what might make sense for you.
Functionally they refer to the same thing. “Marriage counselling” tends to be the older term; “couples therapy” reflects the broader range of relationships we work with, including long-term partnerships, common-law couples, and same-sex couples. Our approach is the same regardless of relationship structure or legal status.
Yes, and it’s one of the most common reasons couples come to us. Recovering from a breach of trust is possible, but it takes time, honesty, and a genuine willingness from both people to do the work. We won’t tell you that every relationship is repairable — but many are, and we’ll be direct with you about what the process looks like.
Not at all — and some of the most rewarding couples work happens with couples who aren’t in crisis at all. Many couples come proactively: they want better tools for communication, they want to understand each other more deeply, or they simply want to build a stronger foundation before problems take root. There’s something almost old-fashioned about this in the best sense — the idea that you don’t wait for something to break before you invest in it. We service our cars before they break down, we see a financial advisor when things are going well, not only when we’re in debt. The same logic applies to relationships. If you care about your partnership and want to show up well for each other, therapy doesn’t have to wait for a crisis to be worth your time. Our Couples Primer program was built with exactly this in mind — it’s structured, evidence-based, and genuinely enjoyable. Couples often leave feeling more secure, more connected, and better equipped than they expected. And if you are in crisis — if things have reached a point where you feel stuck, disconnected, or like the patterns between you are getting worse — the sooner you begin to work through things in therapy, the better. Waiting tends to entrench those patterns further and can deepen the sense of isolation that often comes with relationship distress. You don’t need to hit rock bottom before you reach out. The earlier you start, the more there is to work with.
Couples therapy works best when both people are genuinely committed to improving the relationship. Discernment counselling is designed for couples where one or both partners are uncertain whether to stay — it helps you gain clarity about what you want before deciding on next steps. If you’re not sure which fits, a free consultation is the right starting point — we’ll help you figure it out.
It varies considerably. Some couples do focused short-term work over three to six months; others work with us over a longer period as they address more complex material. After a few sessions your therapist will have a clearer sense of what a realistic timeline looks like for your situation and can discuss that with you directly.
It depends on your plan. Many extended health benefit plans in Canada cover psychotherapy provided by a Registered Psychotherapist or Registered Psychologist — couples therapy is typically covered under the same benefit as individual therapy. We recommend checking with your provider, and we’re happy to help you figure out what to ask.
Every couple moves at a different pace and works on different things – so we don’t promise a specific outcome or timeline. What we can tell you is that couples that engage consistently notice real change in how they’re functioning togehter.
In time, you may notice improvements such as:
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